List of very discreet dating sites
By the way, you have the option to switch-off adult content, after which you’ll just see PG rated profiles. If you are a guy and there as a free member, your chances are extremely low.
Most women won’t pay to chat to you (using “open the door” access).
Upgrading will significantly increase your chances, because unlike the vast majority of men on there who’re trying to “get laid for free”, you have the option to use “open the door” to chat with hot females (who men on free accounts can’t reach). You can place your content (either photos, or videos) into private folders and then, on those you can set your desired access. There just isn’t the same level of privacy options as are available on the two sites above.
In my experience most attractive women will not upgrade – they will just wait for VIP men to contact them. Anyone in your friends list can see your private photos. I found Gleeden to be a bit less active than the other sites, the group areas were often empty and I only got replies to a couple of the emails I sent out.
For many people, this is much better than hiding the fact that you’re also in another serious relationship.