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The text was from his ex-girlfriend arranging to meet him for lunch on Friday.
I have photos, love letters, and emails from women in my past. If you’re insulted that your boyfriend is in touch with his ex, that’s your prerogative, but you’re pretty much ensuring the destruction of your own relationship. A woman’s fear of being hurt is one of the main reasons why men disappear. I really don’t understand why some women are so afraid that their boyfriends are going to go running back to their exes.
Because any man who cuts off his friendships because of an insecure ex will get what he deserves – an irrationally jealous girlfriend who will never trust him no matter what. You’ll be surprised at how well men respond to being trusted. Evan is absolutely right to say that there are REASONS why they broke up. But I definitely want to stay in touch because I care about them in the same way I care about my other friends.
I could go on, but this is enough of a run-on sentence already. The only thing that jealousy indicates is how insecure you are. If you have a man that’s untrustworthy, then he shouldn’t be your boyfriend.
If he’s your boyfriend, then you have no choice but to trust him completely.
Good men and women stay in touch with their exes because their exes are kind people with whom they share a lot of history.