Dating larger man
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They expected me to bring home the aesthetic equivalent of Christopher Hemsworth, I guess. I would be lying if I said that it didn't bother me — that it didn't make me wonder whether I'd done something wrong, or chosen a partner prematurely.
To them, it didn't matter that he was intelligent or loving or good; it just mattered that I would be the one carrying my boyfriend over the threshold someday. Logic and love prevailed over sizeism and antiquated gender roles! To see a larger woman with a smaller (be it shorter or skinnier) man just isn't the norm (unless the woman is a tall and statuesque model — then it's OK).
It would've been nice to not feel like the other when it came to exploring my sexuality (something I just didn't do).
Of course, I tried to act like it was intentional — like I just didn't see the point in wasting my time on all those Forked River-ites who wore too much Billabong and burped their ABCs (it was a fascinating revelation that they even knew their ABCs).
I can get so hung up on a clothing size that I’ll buy a less flattering but lower number to make myself feel better.